failed to send message to ip-18->mail.xxxxxxxxx.de@smtp_client Some(ResolvedAddress { name: \"mail.xxxxxxxx.de.\", addr: x.x.x.x }): Timed Out waiting 5s for response to Some(Rset)
We are currently having issues with this particular domain. I assume the SMTP server is slow to respond because it does feel a bit slow when I use telnet on it. How can we increase the timeout?
Question is if you can connect to the mail server at all. I have some experience with telekom.de or web.de, and I had to contact support to have the IP reputation reset as they werr totally blocked. Apparently they auto block any IP unless it send mail in the past months or so.
So best is to manually test if you can connect at all from the queue IP.
You can configure timeouts for the various smtp client command verbs in the egress path settings; these are what you typically set via the shaping.toml file
Then eitger kumomta is making too many connections. So maybe create a shaping rule to make 1 connection and see what happens. It is sometime beneficial to only setup 1 connection and see what goes.
could be, but also: I think some sites penalize servers that make aggressive use of pipelining, because those tend to be higher volume, and that tends to detectable by how often rset is used.